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Okay so as you may have noticed, there have not been too many posts involving my sons hs. The reason for this is all of the time we have been spending at the hospital with my dd who has beckwith-weidemann syndrome. Macroglossia is part of this syndrome and so her tongue blocks her airway and she has a tracheostomy. Long story short, we just arrived home from seeing her surgeon and ENT and her surgery for a tongue reduction is booked for January inshaAllah. At that time, a different ENT will come in and place tubes in her ears as she currently has full conductive hearing loss alhamdulillah. Please make duaa for her. InshaAllah my mother will be coming to help us. Ds doesnt mind the hospital so much as they have playrooms and he always has soo much to keep him busy from crafts to nintendo and on and on alhamdulillah. He is as patient as a 4 year old boy could be mashaAllah, Allah has blessed us.
In other news, she has learned the sign for “more” and “no”….
Alhamdulillah my dear husband has come down with a high fever (among other effects) only a few days before he is to depart and come home. Allah give him shaf’aa, ameen.
Do you ever wonder why Allah subhana wa t’ala allows his believers to come down with sickness?
Hadith – Bukhari 7:564
“I visited Allah’s Apostle while he was suffering from a high fever. I touched him with my hand and said, “O Allah’s Apostle! You have a high fever.” Allah’s Apostle said, “Yes, I have as much fever as two men of you have.” I said, “Is it because you will get a double reward?” Allah’s Apostle said, “Yes, no Muslim is afflicted with harm because of sickness or some other inconvenience, but that Allah will remove his sins for him as a tree sheds its leaves.”
What does this all mean? It means that although you feel as though you are suffering, when you find yourself sick, a sin is erased from your record. So next time, do not place any negative connotation when explaining your sickness (i.e “I feel horrible.”), rather say “Alhamdulillah, I do not feel well.” Count your blessings while you are sick (mar’eetha) using the opportunity to seek forgiveness of sins inshaAllah.
10 things that wipe out 10 other things
2. Pride wipes out knowledge
3. Repentance wipes out sin
4. Lying wipes out livlihood
5. Justice wipes out oppression
6. Grief wipes out life span
7. Charity wipes out calamity
8. Anger wipes out intellect
9. Haughtiness wipes out generosity
10. Backbiting wipes out good deeds
Asalaamu alaikum sisters,
I just wanted to give a shout out to another sister and dear friend of mine, Mariam Umm Muhammad. She is currently homeschooling her daughter mashaAllah while keeping an eye on her two younger sons! She is a wonderful sister and mother so I would like to be the first to welcome her to our online homeschooling community and offer any help I can give… I know it is hard sometimes habibti, but jazakAllah khair for all you do, may Allah subhana wa t’ala reward you in the akhirah and may He make it easier for you and your family every day inshaAllah.
Bismillah ar-raman ar raheem…
The Messenger of Allah (sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam / may Allah bless him and grant him peace) said: “When a man dies, his deeds come to an end except for three things: Sadaqah Jariyah (continuous charity); knowledge which is beneficial; or a virtuous descendant who prays for him (the deceased).” [Sahih Muslim]
“His deeds come to an end” means that he/she is not able to perform any deeds any more and therefore does not receive reward for actions anymore. But there are three categories of actions for which he/she can receive reward even after death.
First, Sadaqah Jariyah: This is any good deed done from which people continue to benefit despite the demise of the person who originated it. For example, the establishment of a madrassa or masjid (mosque) from which people are rightly guided will be sadaqah jariya (continuous charity) for the person who established it. Having a well dug or a shade or fruit tree planted will also accrue good deeds for a person, as long as the well or tree benefits people.
Second, “knowledge which is beneficial” means knowledge imparted verbally or by any other means through which people become better Muslims. As long as people benefit from this knowledge, the teacher will receive reward for it.
A third source of reward is having virtuous descendants. Training of children on the right lines and then making dua for them to be among the righteous is essential, so that after a person’s death they continue to pray for him or her. The prayer of righteous children in favour of parents is very useful.
Needless to say, all such deeds have to be done with sincerity (ikhlas) in seeking the pleasure of Allah (subhana wa ta’aala). Only when they are done to earn His pleasure will they be rewarded by Him.